parents & teens

The adults need to give us, the teenagers, more independence. If the parents give us freedom, we will learn from our mistakes and fix them.

I believe that parents need to release the teenagers, and if they do it, the teens will draw conclusions and fix the mistakes that happend to them as a consequence to their action. When the parents give the teenagers freedom, the teenagers will become automatically more responsible.

Every relationship is based on trust. If the adults permit the teens the independence, it will show them that their parents trust them and this fact will encourage the teenagers to succeed in their actions. When you know that someone believes in you, them will work very hard not to let him down.

In conclusion, I think that the adults need to give the teenagers more independence, and freedom. Because, if the parents give teens more freedom they will fix their mistakes.

Better.

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Daphna

Dear Daniel

7.1.10

Dear Daniel,

I heard about your problem and I hope that I can help you. Actually, I think that the one who needs advice is your friend, that put himself and you in a risky situation. He drives very fast, and while he is driving he listens to loud music.

In the last year, I had the same problem as you. I worked very hard on the solution, but in the end I went to my psychologist, Almog. He told me that I had to think about my own life and not about my friend's feelings. Sometimes we need to tell our friends what we really think, in order to prevent a very sad result.

You need to talk about this with your friend, because there are many consequences to his action. When he drives very fast, he puts a lot of people in danger. In addition, in times.when your friend drives really fast he can be arrested.

I hope that I helped you...

Amit

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Daphna